Love Constellation Training — Shanghai，China，10.01-10.07
Practitioner Program
Cohort I
Price：¥36,000 RMB per participant
international students：$5,000 USD
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1、The beginning
The Principle of Love Constellation
Every family carries its own story and its own virtues.
What flows through it is love — passed down from one generation to the next.
A family system is never limited to the small unit we can see. It is not only “a family of three,”
or only the people who are present now.It is a lineage — a living ancestral field that extends across generations.
In this field, many belong, including those we can see and those we cannot. This may also include children who were conceived but never born,
whether through loss, miscarriage, or abortion, whether intended or unintended.
Once a life has begun, that member already exists in the system. The system knows.
Even when the family does not speak of it, the system does not erase it.
So when I speak of a family as a tree, I do not mean only the visible family. I mean a much larger family tree, extending through many generations.
Imagine the family as a tree. Each leaf is a member of that family. When even one member is missing, the entire system is affected.
In Love Constellation work, this is not a metaphor. It is a law.
Hellinger described this as the right to belong. Every member of a system has an equal right to be included — no matter what they did, no matter what happened.
When someone is excluded, forgotten, denied, or not given their place, the system does not forget them. Instead, the system will try to restore its wholeness.
And very often, this happens unconsciously through later generations.
Someone in the family may begin to carry what does not belong to them.
They may repeat a fate, follow a pattern, or feel something they cannot explain.
Every system also has its own order. Those who came earlier have a different place from those who came later.
When this order is disturbed — for example,
when a child takes on the burden of a parent, or stands in a place that is not theirs — life begins to feel heavy, unclear, or out of flow.
If you,
or your family, have ever experienced divorce,
infidelity, or entanglement in intimate relationships,
betrayal or deception in important partnerships, or the existence of a family member who was forgotten, excluded, or never recorded —
such as early ancestors separated by migration or war, those who never returned home,
generations who endured hardship without recognition,
or experiences like adoption,
IVF, crime, natural disasters, sudden accidents, or the loss of loved ones —
these events do not simply pass.
They leave traces in the system.
They may have brought visible or invisible disruption to the family tree.
And over time, this can show up in your life — as a lack of drive, as confusion, as a sense of helplessness,
or as a life that seems complete on the surface, yet does not feel truly alive.
Love Constellation allows the problem to be unfold. It reveals what is operating beneath the surface — the underlying truth within the wholeness.
And what you may begin to see is this: what you are struggling with is not only yours.
Whether it is a sense of lack in money or difficulty in love, something in the system may be out of place, forgotten, or out of balance.
from that, your current experience takes shape
2、The work: what you will learn
Family Constellation work begins with what is present in the family system — what is the original truth in our family? It does not start from theory, but from what shows itself.
In a constellation, what has been unresolved, what has been carried, and what has not yet found its place can become visible. Nothing is forced. Nothing is interpreted. What belongs is allowed to appear, and what has been unseen can be seen. Through this process, what Hellinger described as blind love — the unconscious loyalty that binds a person to the fate of the system — can begin to transform into a more conscious movement of love.
This allows entanglements within the family system to loosen at their root.
The person is able to see more clearly what has been operating beneath the surface, and what belongs to whom.
As this becomes visible, the order of love within the system can begin to re-establish itself.
When order is restored, love is able to move again in its natural way.
And from this movement, change becomes possible — not only for the individual, but for the family system as a whole, including what unfolds in the future.
This training is not simply a form of teaching. It is a real encounter with the movement of love within your family system.
In Hellinger’s work, one of the most essential qualities is this: what is spoken is simple, yet it carries what is true. Through simple words, something deeper becomes visible — the movement of love at its most fundamental level.
In this work, we do not rely on complex explanations. We stay with what is real, and allow what is present to reveal itself.
The Love Constellation training you receive here comes from two sources. First, it is grounded in the original work of Bert Hellinger — in the essence of his English texts and the principles that guide systemic constellations. Second, it comes from direct experience in practice.
Over the past seven years, Anwen has worked in one-to-one sessions, supporting others in moving toward love within their own systems.
Since 2024, this work has also extended into in-person teaching and group trainings, alongside continued one-to-one support both online and offline, with more than 1,000 individual sessions.
In addition, guided meditations on self-love and manifestation — including original work such as manifesting within love — have reached a wide audience, with approximately one million views.
Through repeated workshops and constellations, the same movement has been observed again and again: when what was out of place is seen, when what was excluded is acknowledged, love begins to return to its proper order.
And within that order, love can grow.
This is the foundation of this work.
For love. From love. And toward love.
3、Returning to the truth of love
The Love Constellation training integrates knowledge from neuroplasticity,
together with the mindfulness-based learning Anwen has undertaken at the University of Oxford,
as well as practical approaches to everyday healing and the wisdom of mindfulness.
It is designed to support students in truly “releasing”, and in truly seeing the “truth” of what is happening in their lives.
This training unfolds where your real “issue” lies.The Love Constellation Practitioner course is not only able to support the resolution of
inherited entanglements, energetic imbalances, distortions, and disconnections within the family system,
but also guides you to learn, as an adult, how to create the kind of life you truly want — a successful career, a fulfilling relationship,
and a grounded, powerful sense of self.
It also supports women in embodying a magnetic, divine feminine presence, and men in developing a healthy, grounded expression of masculine virtue.
In the theory of Family Constellation, Bert Hellinger once expressed that
when a woman becomes a true woman, she achieves one of the greatest forms of success in life:
she learns to place herself in the first position, and to hold herself with unconditional compassion.
The reason why Anwen’s original Love Constellation Practitioner training is able to support you is not because it is based on unfounded mysticism,
but because it is grounded in the principles of love, order, and wholeness.
Through this, it supports a person in seeing clearly the real connections between themselves, their relationships, their family system, their emotions, and their inner patterns.
This is the truth of love.
WHAT THIS WORK CAN SUPPORT
It may support you in areas such as:
recurring patterns in relationships, including attachment, conflict, or emotional entanglement
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feelings of being stuck, lost, or lacking direction in life
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difficulties around money, self-worth, or receiving
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unresolved emotional burdens that do not seem to belong entirely to you
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a sense of disconnection from yourself, your family, or your place in life
At the level of the family system, this work may also bring into view:
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inherited patterns and intergenerational entanglements
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the impact of excluded, forgotten, or unacknowledged family members
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disruptions in belonging, order, or balance within the system
IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER
This course is not a form of medical or psychological treatment and is not intended to replace professional healthcare or therapy. No specific outcome is guaranteed.
Each person remains responsible for their own life, their choices.
This training offers a space to see more clearly what is present; what you do with what you see remains your own.
I would first like to express my gratitude to my mentor, Zhao Wanxin, who guided me into the wisdom of Family Constellation. I will honour this work, and the future of Love Constellation, by approaching every individual session and every training I offer with sincerity and devotion.
Secondly, I would like to thank Vianna Stibal, the founder of ThetaHealing, for offering me a “ladder” to come to know the Creator of All That Is.
You built a bridge that allowed me to realise that every human being, every individual, is a divine spark of the Creator of All That Is.
I am also grateful to my psychology professors at the University of Aberdeen, who have given me inspiration from humanistic psychology, as well as the ability to think with academic rigour, dialectics, and critical perspective — allowing me to continue learning within this vast world, and to create new and meaningful possibilities.